Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Thomas Kilvington with the following comment:
I am researching my family tree and the copy I want is my 3 x G Grandfather, Thomas Kilvington. It's thanks to people like you that resources like this are available to people who are unable to visit the churchyard themselves. I think its poor that people don't thank you or acknowledge your hard work. I would happily pay to have this image as it's part of my history. Thanks for all your efforts, keep up the good work.